I think a lot about why most people are impersonal here. It could very well be that it's because we come into contact with so many people that if we were to build a connection with everyone we'd meet then we would suffer a loss when we stop the connection. We don't want to get too attached. Everyone is working on their own. That's a shameful way of thought.I know it's not like that everywhere. I live in a neighborhood where everyone is pretty friendly toward others. It's definitely a state of mind.
With the media trying to instill fear in the public, people buy into it. One girl gets abducted and killed and suddenly all of the other children who get kidnapped are ignored. What is up with that? Or the woman with the eight kids (well, fourteen actually)? But who really cares? Unless you're going to get off your mental couch and do something about it then you have no right to judge her.
That's the thing about it. There are so many that are quick to judge someone else's life. Someone that they don't even know and have never met. We are all judged. I say, the best thing we can do is just to be compassionate. People do stupid things, including us. Instead of judging, let's make an effort to remedy the situation and offer help and support to those in need. We can't change the past and this is the best we can do.
Please everyone, the next time we can offer our help to others, even if we don't think they need it, just offer it anyway. It will benefit all of us in the long run.
